
Originally Posted by
Draconian
Or... I was just asking? How can I reflect on things I have no experience with? You claimed the network as a whole does this, I don't watch the network as a whole, only a few shows, so I inquired from someone who seemed to be taking an experienced stance on the topic.
It is relevant. Your point, as I understand it as as you've stated, is that the sex scenes never advance the plot and are therefore gratuitous. You also say they could show them more tastefully if showing two people spending the night together is necessary to show for the plot/character. The reason the violence question is relevant, is because it is treated the same way. It often is not necessary to show anywhere near as much violence as shows do, to advance the plot. Do we actually need to see a severed head close up with blood? When people get shot in shows, do we really need to see the person being shot and bleeding on the floor? No, just like the "softcore porn" in Game of Thrones or Sopranos, the level of graphic violence in these shows is also gratuitous. So, since your main complaint is about gratuitous things that don't serve the plot, I don't see how you see zero connection here. Your real problem isn't boobies, it's unnecessary boobies for the sake of boobies - but all these shows don't need blood either, it's unnecessary graphic violence for the sake of graphic violence. You can show sex without nudity just like you can show someone being beheaded without holding the head infront of the crowd in a close up shot.
That's on you then, that's your own personal response, insecurities, personality, and desires. That's your own mind at work man - you can't blame the show for that haha. And there have been plenty of examples in our culture of violence in movies/video games etc being blamed for inspiring or desensitizing (etc etc) people towards violence. So although YOU might not experience that, obviously some people feel similarly to gratuitous violence as you do to gratuitous nudity/sex!
So then it's really not about the plot at all, is it? It's about your own personal preferences. You have been disingenuous in your supposedly principal stance.
You don't mind gratuitous zero-plot devices at all. From what you've said, it sounds like your complaint is more about sex and nudity than it is about gratuitous scenes, or else you'd have a stronger opinion on wasting your time with any sort of gratuitous writing/scene.
Well, I'm glad the shows don't lessen your capacity to command (yay semantics! ;D). Seriously though, you say you don't have a moral issue with it, but you hinted at sexual thoughts being induced by these sorts of scenes, and seemed to imply that you didn't exactly enjoy having those thoughts creep up. If the thoughts make you uncomfortable, you must believe they are somehow wrong or improper, no? Yes yes, I know this isn't a big moral dilemma to you where they're making you hold back from cheating on your wife - I'm not meaning to drive the point that hard - but, you did say they trigger thoughts which you apparently don't like. There's something to that!
Kudos for making me laugh without a facepalm involved.